Decisions.

Every decision we make leads to the next.  It seems as if every time we make a big decision, expecting peace of mind or calmness for a moment in time, there is typically another choice to be determined close around the corner.

Since I was married in May, Kevin moved to Hattiesburg with me while I was in school, I found a job I wanted to take in Brookhaven, Kevin took the job he wanted all along back home, we moved in less than a week, I graduated school and left a family of close friends, I cried, I began work, I cried, 4 months later God led me to leave my job, we almost bought two houses and are now staying in our apartment a little longer, and now I am diligently looking for the next step. Each of these events were and are surrounded by weighing our options, making sacrifices, making a decision and adjusting to it. We have been married 7 months and it feels like two years.

Our graduation in August: Marriage and Family Therapists Class of 2011!

Currently, I make a decision each day of how I will spend my time. Somehow... over the six weeks I have been home, I have managed to fill all but a handful of days with busy-ness. When I really sit back and think about how I prefer to keep my mind occupied on something (ANYTHING!) I wonder why that is. Why is it so hard to be still and comfortable with the way things are for this season in my life?

"There is a time for everything, and a season for every activity under heaven:
  a time to be born and a time to die, a time to plant and a time to uproot,
  a time to kill and a time to heal, a time to tear down and a time to build....

  a time to embrace and a time to refrain, a time to search and a time to give up,
  a time to keep and a time to throw away, a time to tear and a time to mend,
  a time to be silent and a time to speak....

  He has made everything beautiful in its own time..."      Ecclesiastes 3:1-3, 5-7, 11

  No matter how much we stress, how much we wonder and reason, no matter what we think we need or want right this minute, I believe God's timing is not something we can rush. I do believe that decisions and circumstances have led us each to the season we are in today, but I also believe there is more to it than that.

When I think back over choices, decisions and challenges I have faced over the last few years of my life, I think I may be challenged right now more than ever. I am being faced with the challenge to be still and accept this season that God has for me right now. This time of having no job and often at home by myself during the day. This season seems to steal purpose and identity that I had created for myself over the last few years right out of my hands, out from under my feet. It leaves me wondering and questioning during quiet moments. It sometimes feels nice to have no schedule and sometimes scary. Sometimes, it kind of makes me feel crazy. But....

If I have learned anything during my walk with the Lord, I have learned that His timing is waaaaaaay smarter than mine. So for now, I guess I am goingto do all I can to keep my eyes open to opportunity and my ears open to His voice, I am going to try to remain calm, I am going to spend time with family and friends, I am going to being a wife and I am going to keep attempting to paint.... Until the next decisions surfaces!


"We must open our eyes to see that whatever does not begin in God and end in God is not worthy of our attention..." ~A.W. Tozer~